Surgeon Visit

BonnieR
BonnieR Member Posts: 1,526 Member
edited March 2014 in Ovarian Cancer #1
I wanted to let you know what the surgeon said. The appt with colorectal doc was very eye opening. She said my colon is closing, and sounded a bit concerned that it will remain open
until surgery.

I am now looking at each case of diarhea as a God send, and have already said many prayers of thanks for the direct intervention.

I am on a strict low residue diet,but have to add ensure each day to make sure I get my nutrients. I guess each time the diarhea hit I was lucky as it lets my intestines empty, that is why the string poops at other times as the opening is closing. Right now I am in the midst of a blockage as my tummy bloats and hurts and I am not pooping but a skinny minature tootsie roll a day. I know probabbly too much information. :-)

She also said that they may have to put stents in my ureters so she well speak with the kidney docs.

No date set yet because she is going to try to coordinate with gyn/onc, but hopefully soon. She said he may be able to get in and remove my rectum and tumors, but because of the location it would not be easy, I would be in hospital about a week if all goes well.

Also I want you to know Wednesday morning I had a peace about the surgery, and then in the afternoon spoke with my gyn/onc which only reinforced the peace, and then to learn what has been going on for awhile made me say many many Thank You Prayers for God continuing to carry me through. Now the waiting game for the appts to be set, to meet with nutritionist and stoma nurse. My next prayer is my Dr is here long enough to get the surgery on his schedule, as a research doc he is gone alot.

That's it ~ Prayers ♥ Hugs Bonnie

The winds of Grace are always blowing, just make sure you raise the sails.
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  • nancy591
    nancy591 Member Posts: 1,027 Member
    surgery
    I'm trying to absorb this information. Are you saying he may or may not be able to successfully complete the surgery? A permanent ostomy beats the other alternative. I hope to find the strength and peace that you have. Good luck with your upcoming visits.
    {{{HUGS}}} Nancy
  • kayandok
    kayandok Member Posts: 1,202 Member
    Praying for you Bonnie,
    a lot on your plate right now!! Thanks for keeping us updated.
    Hugs,
    kathleen:)
  • lindaprocopio
    lindaprocopio Member Posts: 1,980
    kayandok said:

    Praying for you Bonnie,
    a lot on your plate right now!! Thanks for keeping us updated.
    Hugs,
    kathleen:)

    and you still have found peace amidst it all!
    (((Bonnie))). The long journey develops an amazing inner strength that I see so evidenced in you, Bonnie. How wise you are, wise beyond your years! Reaching for, and securing peace is the essence of grace. I know that you are wrapped in grace and peace as you mount this next battle. Please let us know the 'game plan' as it unfolds. In my prayers....
  • Mwee
    Mwee Member Posts: 1,338
    diarhea
    Hi Bonnie,

    That is definitely NOT too much info and I just hope that your diarhea continues so you can be more comfortable. I'm hoping that they can get you in quickly and please know that each and everyone of us are with you. (((HUGS))) Maria
  • leesag
    leesag Member Posts: 621 Member
    God Bless
    Bonnie,


    You are an amazing woman! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your surgeon!

    Leesa
  • catcan
    catcan Member Posts: 119
    good wishes
    Bonnie
    Good thoughts and lots of prayers coming your way. Stay strong

    Cat
  • Tina Brown
    Tina Brown Member Posts: 1,036 Member
    catcan said:

    good wishes
    Bonnie
    Good thoughts and lots of prayers coming your way. Stay strong

    Cat

    Bonnie
    You are amazing - to be still able to write on these board when you are suffering. I wish you all the best. Love Tina xxx
  • Lisa13Q
    Lisa13Q Member Posts: 677
    Oh Bonnie
    Good Luck and I am soo sorry for your suffering..which hospital will you have your surgery? The Twin Cities??? If so, please let me know if you need anything at all....I am there and can help out in any way...Please keep us posted...
  • MichaelaMarie
    MichaelaMarie Member Posts: 163
    Lisa13Q said:

    Oh Bonnie
    Good Luck and I am soo sorry for your suffering..which hospital will you have your surgery? The Twin Cities??? If so, please let me know if you need anything at all....I am there and can help out in any way...Please keep us posted...

    Inspirational
    Dear Bonnie,

    You are definitely forever my inspiration!!!! I'm happy that you are going to have the surgery and that you are feeling a peace and calm about it. What an example you are for all of us! Love, prayer and hugs, MM
  • jane65
    jane65 Member Posts: 277
    Bonnie
    Dear Bonnie,
    I'm sending prayers and hugs to you.
    Jane
  • saundra
    saundra Member Posts: 1,370 Member
    Praying for you
    I am praying that all the time schedules of all the involved surgeons will fall into a perfect place for you. I sure know that your peace is calming though none of us wants to go through with this. The alternative is not my choice either so fight on, sweet friend. I am right behind you and holding you up in many prayers daily. (((HUGS))) Saundra
  • groundeffect
    groundeffect Member Posts: 639 Member
    Prayers for you
    Dear Bonnie,

    I'd like to send you what Saundra has-that everything falls into place and happens as soon as is practical! Your situation doesn't sound very good right now, and I'm sure you'll feel better after the surgery. Godspeed!

    Hugs ♥ Prayers,

    Sue
  • groundeffect
    groundeffect Member Posts: 639 Member
    this posted twice

    this posted twice
  • arbor3
    arbor3 Member Posts: 103
    Surgery
    Bonnie

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. You have uplifted my sprits many a time. Keep us posted.

    Hugs!!!!!!Dinora
  • Hissy_Fitz
    Hissy_Fitz Member Posts: 1,834
    arbor3 said:

    Surgery
    Bonnie

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. You have uplifted my sprits many a time. Keep us posted.

    Hugs!!!!!!Dinora

    Added "my friend, Bonnie" to
    Added "my friend, Bonnie" to the Prayers of the Faithful at Mass tonight.

    Know that everyone here is pulling for you, praying for you, and hoping that everything comes together in a perfect symphony of gentle healing.

    Carlene
  • msfanciful
    msfanciful Member Posts: 559
    Hi Bonnie,
    I hate to hear of

    Hi Bonnie,

    I hate to hear of all this. Why does this have to happen to such beautiful people, some-times when I think I've beaten this thing (spiritually), then something of this nature comes back as if cancer will always be a nightmare!

    I have received so much peace from your words/insight of wisdom in dealing with this cancer.

    I will pray, pray, pray day and night for you. I have tears in my eyes and your strength just blows me away. You are such a strong woman. I don't know how you do it.

    Much Love,

    Sharon
  • BonnieR
    BonnieR Member Posts: 1,526 Member

    Hi Bonnie,
    I hate to hear of

    Hi Bonnie,

    I hate to hear of all this. Why does this have to happen to such beautiful people, some-times when I think I've beaten this thing (spiritually), then something of this nature comes back as if cancer will always be a nightmare!

    I have received so much peace from your words/insight of wisdom in dealing with this cancer.

    I will pray, pray, pray day and night for you. I have tears in my eyes and your strength just blows me away. You are such a strong woman. I don't know how you do it.

    Much Love,

    Sharon

    thank you
    God is Good all the time.. thank you for kind words and encouragement. God is my strength and it is through Him that I get my strength. He uses each of you to add encouragement, love and so much kindness to my life. The word Thanks is not enough to tell you what your friendships have menat to me. Yes God is Good all the time ~ All the time God is Good!

    Prayers ♥ Hugs Bonnie

    Psalm 29:11 The LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace.

    And once again He sent his peace to wash over me, that is the best way I can descripe the peace that it "washes over me". I pray you each can feel that peace :-)

    Isaiah 40:31 but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

    Through Him I continue to sail, a prayer that each of you well grow weak from weary(not that we dont' have our moments) but as we look back in amazement on how we get to where we are we know it is not from our Strength that we have made it thus far. :-D

    Philippians 4:13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.

    Amen ... God Loves You & So Do I
  • mopar
    mopar Member Posts: 1,972 Member
    BonnieR said:

    thank you
    God is Good all the time.. thank you for kind words and encouragement. God is my strength and it is through Him that I get my strength. He uses each of you to add encouragement, love and so much kindness to my life. The word Thanks is not enough to tell you what your friendships have menat to me. Yes God is Good all the time ~ All the time God is Good!

    Prayers ♥ Hugs Bonnie

    Psalm 29:11 The LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace.

    And once again He sent his peace to wash over me, that is the best way I can descripe the peace that it "washes over me". I pray you each can feel that peace :-)

    Isaiah 40:31 but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

    Through Him I continue to sail, a prayer that each of you well grow weak from weary(not that we dont' have our moments) but as we look back in amazement on how we get to where we are we know it is not from our Strength that we have made it thus far. :-D

    Philippians 4:13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.

    Amen ... God Loves You & So Do I

    PEACE
    When that Peace is sent by the Lord, you know, that you know, that you know. It's beyond a shadow of a doubt, and hard to describe. It's beyond words. And I'm so grateful to hear you have that peace that passes all understanding. You go through this journey with such trust, faith and grace. Your family must be amazed at you every moment - I know I sure am.

    Sending oodles of prayers and hugs today, and always, Bonnie.

    (((HUGS))) & LUV & PRAYERS
    Monika
  • Hissy_Fitz
    Hissy_Fitz Member Posts: 1,834
    BonnieR said:

    thank you
    God is Good all the time.. thank you for kind words and encouragement. God is my strength and it is through Him that I get my strength. He uses each of you to add encouragement, love and so much kindness to my life. The word Thanks is not enough to tell you what your friendships have menat to me. Yes God is Good all the time ~ All the time God is Good!

    Prayers ♥ Hugs Bonnie

    Psalm 29:11 The LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace.

    And once again He sent his peace to wash over me, that is the best way I can descripe the peace that it "washes over me". I pray you each can feel that peace :-)

    Isaiah 40:31 but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

    Through Him I continue to sail, a prayer that each of you well grow weak from weary(not that we dont' have our moments) but as we look back in amazement on how we get to where we are we know it is not from our Strength that we have made it thus far. :-D

    Philippians 4:13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.

    Amen ... God Loves You & So Do I

    On Eagles Wings....my
    On Eagles Wings....my favorite hymn, Bonnie. For those who have never heard it, here is a You Tube link:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rRea9qnjK4
  • BonnieR
    BonnieR Member Posts: 1,526 Member
    Lisa13Q said:

    Oh Bonnie
    Good Luck and I am soo sorry for your suffering..which hospital will you have your surgery? The Twin Cities??? If so, please let me know if you need anything at all....I am there and can help out in any way...Please keep us posted...

    Universtiy Hospital
    Hi Lisa, I well be at U of Mn Fairview, campus hospital. It would be great to meet you so if you are in the area, a few days after surgery though, please stop by if you get the chance.

    How is your mom doing? How are you doing? Don't remember reading an update for awhile.

    Prayers N Hugs Bonnie