WHEW !!! WHAT A YEAR IT HAS BEEN, AND SO BLESSED TO HAVE ALL YOU GUYS AS MY FRIENDS.

Hello everyone,

What a year this has been little did I know my husband would be diagnosed with Cancer at the age of 45, and when he was diagnosed I thought why us, and then our beloved Kitten always said "why not me" then as time went on we discovered it was operable, we went through so much, surgery chemo, mouth sores, grippyness, hatefulness, and loosing our hair. Somedays I just didn't think we could do no more, then one day i thought okay I need some advice and signed on to this site, wow did I ever find excellent friends, I found out so much I didn't like alot of the things people said it scared me, but I listened, then Jeff had surgery was in intensive care for 10 days didn't do well, almost lost him then, then slowly came around and was moved to floor, and then home, never thought in a million years that i would be dealing with cancer, but I have learned so much on someone having cancer. I met Kitten0385, with lots of laughter, fun and advice oh how I miss her, and then Bill and Loretta Marshall whom i love dearly, but in the beginning I just didn't like some of his answers, but he was great, and then somehow I started selling BIG GIRL PANTIES, and let everyone know "JUST PULL UP YOUR BIG GIRL PANTIES" and move on. I never thought I would make it this far, but I did.

We lost a few on this site to this ugly disease we call cancer, Wildgoose, Kitten, Roy, and some I don't know, now they are in heaven watching over us, and looking over the ones still suffering with cancer. We never know when GOD is going to take us to his place called home.

Jeff is doing really good, he still has his good days and bad days, his ups and downs, but for everything that happened he is doing wonderful and living life to its fullest.

With all this being said :

Merry Christmas Happy New Year, for all the ones having surgery, had surgery, waiting on surgery and the ones that can't have surgery due to other problems, Keep your chin up and your big girl/boy underwear on, and have faith in all you do.

I wish everyone on this stie a very happy holiday and we are all here for some reason or another, to vent, cry, laugh or just wish a good luck, we all need to stick together and by cbyer friends so we all can get through this BUMP in the road of CANCER>

Happy Holidays
Jeff and Lori