My love has passed on

Kathleen808
Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
in Colorectal Cancer #1

Dear Friends,

This is what we have sent out:

"My sweet, strong, amazing husband of 26 years passed away this morning just after sunrise in beautiful Lanikai surrounded by his family.

Mahalo nui loa to family and friends who have stayed with us through this journey.

Aloha no au la 'oe
I truly love you ****"

For you, you know there is so much more.  When the time comes I will write about our 5 days in hospice at our home.  It was a very hard time but we are so pleased that he was home.  When he passed this morning at 6:30am I was by his side with his best friend and sister.  Our daughter and my mother entered the room within a few minutes.  Once he journeyed on, we all felt so relieved that he was at peace.  He fought so hard for so long and was ready to go.  I know I am going to need you in the days ahead and I know you will be here.

Aloha,

Kathleen

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  • minibull
    minibull Member Posts: 56 Member
    #2
    So Sorry

    My dear Kathleen, words fail to convey my deepest sympathy to you and your family.  At least you can be reassured that **** is now pain free and at peace.  He's probably flying over the sands and water of Kailua Beach right now.  Please post when you are able to - we are concerned that you'll be okay.  Call if you need anything.

    Love, Laureen

  • ron50
    ron50 Member Posts: 1,723 Member
    #3
    There are no words to

    Describe how I feel upon hearing youre words. There is no way to put into words that a life of a loving father , husband and friend has eneded . there are no real words for me to say to you Kathleen other than I am very happy to have seen a couple who had so much love for family and each other. You have the love of your family and your cyber family to hold you up and get you thru the many years to come My deepest sympathy. Ron.

  • UncleBuddy
    UncleBuddy Member Posts: 1,019 Member
    #4
    so sorry for your loss!!!

    You were such a source of strength for your husband and family. I am glad he is now pain free and at peace.

    We will be here waiting when you're ready to share.

    Hugs!

    Lin

  • Luv2lunch
    Luv2lunch Member Posts: 270
    #5
    So sorry

    Kathleen,

    There are no words that come to mind. Only how sorry we are for your loss. I'm glad your wonderful husband is not suffering anymore. It's a horrible thing to watch someone that you love suffering. We will continue to pray for strength for you and your family. Please take care of yourself. I'm sure **** is riding a big one upstairs.

    Love,

    Linda and Mom

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    #6
    Blessing being sent your way

    I will continue to pray for you and your family as you move on without ****. 

    Cyber hugs!

    SUE/TRU

  • Chelsea71
    Chelsea71 Member Posts: 1,169 Member
    #7
    Please accept my deepest

    Please accept my deepest condolences.  You both fought so hard and inspires so many others throughout your battle.  You were a wonderful wife and caregiver.  Please take care of yourself in the days ahead.

    chelsea

  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    #8
    Dearest Kathleen

    The love of your life, your dear husband ****, will always be with you. 

    The love and life that you and he shared will forever be in your heart. 

    He will watch over you and your daughters.

    May you, your family and those who loved him find the memories ease the sorrow.

    We will be here to support you in any way that we can.

    Love and hugs,

    Marie who loves kitties

     

  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
    #9
    Chelsea71 said:

    Please accept my deepest

    Please accept my deepest condolences.  You both fought so hard and inspires so many others throughout your battle.  You were a wonderful wife and caregiver.  Please take care of yourself in the days ahead.

    chelsea

    Kathleen  I  am devastated,

    Kathleen 

     

    I  am devastated, my deepest heartfelt condolences.  it's ok to cry, but please stay strong. PM me if you need anything.  I can give you my phone number.  

     

    Wrapping my arms around you. 

    God  speed ****. We will meet one day. 

  • jen2012
    jen2012 Member Posts: 1,607 Member
    #10
    So very sorry Kathleen.  You

    So very sorry Kathleen.  You and **** have been incredible role models in how to live (and die) with this horrific disease.  Prayers for peace for your family and may your good memories always keep **** close.

  • LivinginNH
    LivinginNH Member Posts: 1,456 Member
    #11
     Kathleen,My sincere

     

    Kathleen,

    My sincere condolences on your loss, it's been a difficult journey for you both.  Take some comfort that he is now at peace and no longer in pain. 

    With sympathy,

    Cynthia

  • Yolllmbs
    Yolllmbs Member Posts: 360 Member
    #12
    jen2012 said:

    So very sorry Kathleen.  You

    So very sorry Kathleen.  You and **** have been incredible role models in how to live (and die) with this horrific disease.  Prayers for peace for your family and may your good memories always keep **** close.

    Prayers

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers and cyber hugs. 

     

    Yolanda

  • Easyflip
    Easyflip Member Posts: 588 Member
    #13
    He beat it
    He beat it with courage, grace and love. Mahalo to a fellow warrior for being true and strong and an inspiration.
  • ketziah35
    ketziah35 Member Posts: 1,145
    #14
    Kathleen,i am so sorry for

    Kathleen,

    i am so sorry for your loss. I am visiting my mother and let her read some of your posts. She was struck by you and your husbands beautiful spirit.  I pray for you and your family.

     

    love ktz

  • impactzone
    impactzone Member Posts: 551 Member
    #15
    You have my prayers and I so

    You have my prayers and I so admire your strength through all this. I just do not have the words.

    Chip

  • db8ne1
    db8ne1 Member Posts: 142 Member
    #16
    Condolences

    Kathleen,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.  Know that we are here for you when you need support going forward.

     

    J

  • Joy1216
    Joy1216 Member Posts: 290 Member
    #17
    Condolences

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  I hope you are comforted that he is at peace and not suffering.

    Joy

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    #18
    So Very Sorry

    So very sorry that he has passed this soon that you couldn't even take your breath from bringing him home to his eternal peace.  May God be with you and your girls for strength during this most difficult period. You have been a wonderful wife, mother and care giver and you have shared with us your husband's journey which was fought with much admiration.  Be assured that you and your family will be prayed for and thought of.  May he be riding the waves of Heaven as he sails in to eternal peace. 

    Hugs!  Kim

  • Cathleen Mary
    Cathleen Mary Member Posts: 827 Member
    #19
    Annabelle41415 said:

    So Very Sorry

    So very sorry that he has passed this soon that you couldn't even take your breath from bringing him home to his eternal peace.  May God be with you and your girls for strength during this most difficult period. You have been a wonderful wife, mother and care giver and you have shared with us your husband's journey which was fought with much admiration.  Be assured that you and your family will be prayed for and thought of.  May he be riding the waves of Heaven as he sails in to eternal peace. 

    Hugs!  Kim

    Kathleen,
    I am so sorry at

    Kathleen,

    I am so sorry at the loss of your dear husband. My hear is so sad. Please know that you and your daughters are held close in my thoughts and prayers.

    Blessings on these difficult days ahead.

    Hugs.

    CM

  • pf78248
    pf78248 Member Posts: 209
    #20
    So very sorry

     

     

    Dear Kathleen,

     

    I am so very sorry.  **** was so very blessed to have you. May God hold you during these sad times. 

     

    Hugs and Healing,

    Priscilla F. 

     

     

  • Phil64
    Phil64 Member Posts: 838 Member
    #21
    Light and Love

    Kathleen,

    I'm sending light and love your way! I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that the heavens will shower you and your family with Love and Light during these difficult days. Peace be with you.

    Sincerely,

    Philip

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