Catluver UPDATE from her husband

KTeacher
KTeacher Member Posts: 1,103
edited April 2014 in Head and Neck Cancer #1

Has anyone heard from Catluver? 

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  • jim and i
    jim and i Member Posts: 1,788 Member
    #2
    No I haven't in awhile.

    No I haven't in awhile.

  • phrannie51
    phrannie51 Member Posts: 4,716
    #3
    Not a peep....

    since the day before the surgery....that's been a long while... Frown.

    p

  • Grandmax4
    Grandmax4 Member Posts: 723
    #4
    I've been wondering

    about her, hope the surgery was successful and we get word in the not too distant future. Makes me think, if, God forbid, we have to have treatment and are unable to post, maybe we should tell our family, to let our friends on CSN know what's taking place

     

  • KTeacher
    KTeacher Member Posts: 1,103
    #5
    Grandmax4 said:

    I've been wondering

    about her, hope the surgery was successful and we get word in the not too distant future. Makes me think, if, God forbid, we have to have treatment and are unable to post, maybe we should tell our family, to let our friends on CSN know what's taking place

     

    Yes.

    I usually have my sister post for me after my surgeries here and on FB.

  • phrannie51
    phrannie51 Member Posts: 4,716
    #6
    Grandmax4 said:

    I've been wondering

    about her, hope the surgery was successful and we get word in the not too distant future. Makes me think, if, God forbid, we have to have treatment and are unable to post, maybe we should tell our family, to let our friends on CSN know what's taking place

     

    I gave my sister

    a list of places on the net...dog forums, facebook, and here to contact if I was unable to make contact myself.  I got the idea from you, Bev....so people would know what was going on.

    p

  • KTeacher
    KTeacher Member Posts: 1,103
    #7
    phrannie51 said:

    I gave my sister

    a list of places on the net...dog forums, facebook, and here to contact if I was unable to make contact myself.  I got the idea from you, Bev....so people would know what was going on.

    p

    Sisters!

    At my 'surprise' 60th birthday party a week ago, one of my friends thanked my sister for keeping everyone up to date on my recovery after surgeries.  Stanford is 2 1/2 hours away from home and I am in no shape to post coming out of anestesia.

  • debbiejeanne
    debbiejeanne Member Posts: 3,102 Member
    #8
    KTeacher said:

    Sisters!

    At my 'surprise' 60th birthday party a week ago, one of my friends thanked my sister for keeping everyone up to date on my recovery after surgeries.  Stanford is 2 1/2 hours away from home and I am in no shape to post coming out of anestesia.

    bev, i wish we would have

    bev, i wish we would have known about your bday!!  we would have loved to celebrate it with you cyberly.  anyway....

    dj

  • hwt
    hwt Member Posts: 2,328 Member
    #9
    debbiejeanne said:

    bev, i wish we would have

    bev, i wish we would have known about your bday!!  we would have loved to celebrate it with you cyberly.  anyway....

    dj

    Also wondering

    I have also thought of her often and wondered how she is doing. If anyone hears, please post.

  • John W
    John W Member Posts: 3
    #10
    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

  • lornal
    lornal Member Posts: 428
    #11
    John W said:

    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

    Sorry for your loss

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  I looked everyday for Vicki's post.  I was in the hospital at the same time she was in Feb/Mar - and I thought of her often.

    Thank you so much for letting us know.  My prayers are with you and your family.

  • katenorwood
    katenorwood Member Posts: 1,912
    #12
    John W said:

    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

    I am so sorry for your loss

    John,

    My condolences for the loss of your lovely wife Vicki.  She will be missed by many here.  Katie 

  • KTeacher
    KTeacher Member Posts: 1,103
    #13
    John W said:

    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

    So sorry

    So sorry to hear about your loss.  We were wondering when we hadn't heard from her.  Thank you for sharing.

  • CivilMatt
    CivilMatt Member Posts: 4,722 Member
    #14
    T&P

    John,

    My deepest condolences in the passing of Vicki, she was a special person.

    Matt

  • Guzzle
    Guzzle Member Posts: 710
    #15
    CivilMatt said:

    T&P

    John,

    My deepest condolences in the passing of Vicki, she was a special person.

    Matt

    Sorry

    John , I never had the pleasure of conversing with your wife but it is obvious that she touched a lot of hearts here. I am sorry for your families tragic loss sir. I will be lighting a candle in Liverpool Cathedral. Gary.

  • debbiejeanne
    debbiejeanne Member Posts: 3,102 Member
    #16
    John W said:

    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

    john, i'm so very sorry for

    john, i'm so very sorry for your loss.  we will all miss vicki.  this is the second death in a week from this damn disease and it tears me up.  i can't help crying as i type this.  we truly do come to love and care about one another on this site and it hurts deeply when we lose someone.  i'm praying for you and your family at this very sad time.  please come here anytime you want/need to talk or just want some company.  we will be here for you, John, just like we were for Vicki.  God bless you.

    dj

  • phrannie51
    phrannie51 Member Posts: 4,716
    #17
    John W said:

    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

    So very sorry...

    to hear this news.  She will be missed here...a positive and happy light for everyone.  I'm so sorry for you loss, John....please do come back and talk here all you want.....we are great listeners...she was part of this family, too.

    Again.....I'm so sorry about your loss.

    p

  • rachel12yrsuv
    rachel12yrsuv Member Posts: 435
    #18
    John W said:

    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

    John, 
    i am so sorry about

    John, 

    i am so sorry about your loss, i will pray for the to ease your pain and grief!

     

    rachel 

  • wmc
    wmc Member Posts: 1,804
    #19
    John W said:

    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

    So very sorry for your loss....

    John i'm trully sorry for your loss. I enjoyed when she posted and got a lot from them. Vicky will be in my prayers as will you. She will rest in peace.

    wmc

  • KB56
    KB56 Member Posts: 318 Member
    #20
    Vicki

    John, I am really sad to hear of Vicki's passing and the loss that you and your family must be feeling.   Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Sincerely,

    Keith

  • Sunshine60
    Sunshine60 Member Posts: 81
    #21
    John W said:

    My angel Vicki

    Hi everyone.....This is John. Vicki's husband. We have lost an angel. Vicki passed away in my arms on Tuesday 4-15. She had a couple of rad treatments on her leg the last Wed. and Thurs. to alleviate the pain before her passing and that seemed to put her over the top. She became comatose and in a vegatative state (Could have been a combo of rads, brain lesions and pain meds) She was the strongest woman I had ever known. To go through all of this in three years, it was a total nightmare. I wasn't a part of this site but I certainly knew of it and I'm sure she would have wanted me to let everyone know. I knew she respected and, to a point, loved each and every one of you. You helped her through the tough times until she couldn't write anymore. I want to personally thank each of you for helping her. She is incredibly loved and will be incredibly missed. Thank you again.   John 

    PS...If anyone would like to discuss this more...I find it very cathartic. I am loss and our house is very empty now. How I miss her.....

    Prayers for you

    Dear John,

    I am so very sorry for your loss .  Vicki was special to all of us here and she will be missed.  I so hate this disease :(:(

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