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  • natmcg
    natmcg Member Posts: 134 Member
    RHC said:

    Thank You

     

    Thank you for taking time to reply to my fearful rant. I flutter between being ok and crying - not in front of my husband. He's afraid too but we only talk about it at certain times.  Today so far I'm good. I guess what keeps it in our face is the mess of the incision site where the dermatologist 'removed' it. As of last night 3 of the eight outside stitches are in place, it's gaping more everyday, there is redness spreading out and the idiot who did it is on vacation this week and regardless did not want to see my husband again anyway. Who do we see? I don't know if things will be ok to our April 9 appointment. There were fourteen stitches some on the inside and I worry about the ones I can't see. No bleeding though which is good. I guess I'll try to get him in to the nurse practioner today so that he can at least be looked at somewhere, he might need more antibiotics, and stitches.

    From what I've read I understand that DFSP is highly treatable, and has a very low mortality rate but I also read qualifiers that say depending on the site, or location. I;m assuming that that refers to the lungs but I also can't tell you how -I dont want to say excited- eager our DFSP Dr is to have hubby as a patient because of the location, husband says that the Dr should be paying him for the opportunity! Smile

    It's wait and see, very hard to do. Kids are on spring break but we can't do anything so time's passing very slow.

     

    Thank you again for sharing your experience  and knowledge, and for grounding while things are spinning out of control,

    Helen

    Hang in there

    Hang in there Helen, your doing great. You and your hubby are now one day closer to that appointment. If you were here with me you'd be two days closer. Its Thursday here in Australia .lol. That wound is being a bit troublesome.!! :-(( I hope your nurse practitioner (or someone) is able to attend to it. It must be hard for your husband to immobilize that area and bandaging would be difficult also. I see that Jo has posted, stay close to her she has a real nack of being able to deceiver the info out there on the internet. I have to admit I have become a bit lazy in that regard I find it much easier to let her do the searches and once she has a grasp on it she relays it here. And she sticks to the bare facts with out all the medical jargon thrown in. Jo is a real gem. (Don't tell her I said that) lol. Thinking of you & and sending good thoughts Nat.

  • Lone111
    Lone111 Member Posts: 32
    natmcg said:

    Hang in there

    Hang in there Helen, your doing great. You and your hubby are now one day closer to that appointment. If you were here with me you'd be two days closer. Its Thursday here in Australia .lol. That wound is being a bit troublesome.!! :-(( I hope your nurse practitioner (or someone) is able to attend to it. It must be hard for your husband to immobilize that area and bandaging would be difficult also. I see that Jo has posted, stay close to her she has a real nack of being able to deceiver the info out there on the internet. I have to admit I have become a bit lazy in that regard I find it much easier to let her do the searches and once she has a grasp on it she relays it here. And she sticks to the bare facts with out all the medical jargon thrown in. Jo is a real gem. (Don't tell her I said that) lol. Thinking of you & and sending good thoughts Nat.

    And Helen

    and Helen in regards to the tumor in the arm. Fat tissue tumors are very common and no indication that it should be anything but a fat tumor.

    I wil hope for the best possible result for you and husband.

    - Lone

  • Lone111
    Lone111 Member Posts: 32
    Lone111 said:

    And Helen

    and Helen in regards to the tumor in the arm. Fat tissue tumors are very common and no indication that it should be anything but a fat tumor.

    I wil hope for the best possible result for you and husband.

    - Lone

    Great news Nat. First checkup

    Great news Nat. First checkup completed to satisfaction and it sound like you now have 2 great doctors to follow your checkups. Yes I'll have a glass of wine to celebrate:-)

    /lone

  • natmcg
    natmcg Member Posts: 134 Member
    RHC said:

    Thank You

     

    Thank you for taking time to reply to my fearful rant. I flutter between being ok and crying - not in front of my husband. He's afraid too but we only talk about it at certain times.  Today so far I'm good. I guess what keeps it in our face is the mess of the incision site where the dermatologist 'removed' it. As of last night 3 of the eight outside stitches are in place, it's gaping more everyday, there is redness spreading out and the idiot who did it is on vacation this week and regardless did not want to see my husband again anyway. Who do we see? I don't know if things will be ok to our April 9 appointment. There were fourteen stitches some on the inside and I worry about the ones I can't see. No bleeding though which is good. I guess I'll try to get him in to the nurse practioner today so that he can at least be looked at somewhere, he might need more antibiotics, and stitches.

    From what I've read I understand that DFSP is highly treatable, and has a very low mortality rate but I also read qualifiers that say depending on the site, or location. I;m assuming that that refers to the lungs but I also can't tell you how -I dont want to say excited- eager our DFSP Dr is to have hubby as a patient because of the location, husband says that the Dr should be paying him for the opportunity! Smile

    It's wait and see, very hard to do. Kids are on spring break but we can't do anything so time's passing very slow.

     

    Thank you again for sharing your experience  and knowledge, and for grounding while things are spinning out of control,

    Helen

    6mth check all ok.

    Hi everyone I finally went for my 6mth check. ( it's actually been 8mths since my final surgery) As I expected the Dr is really happy with my scar and surrounding area I do have a bit of an indent but that's due to the fat tissue being removed and in time it will probably even out. He has actually got a new Dr.joining his practice and it was great to meet him and talk to him today.This new Dr has been researching and updating information on DFSP as well as dealing with DFSP at a hospital in England. He will be publishing his findings later this yr. Dr Saleem Loghdey.he is a specialist dermatologist and Mohs surgon . I asked them why is it that some people with DFSP are treated by dermatologists and others are referred to sarcoma specialist. They both agreed that if they were your run of the mill dermos they would not attempt dealing with DFSP(although some do) but as my dermo has studied Mohs, oncology, and pathology(in the USA) he would see no reason for me to go else where and now with his new partner I feel I'm going to the best informed Drs. As well I have been comfortable from the very start with my Dr he was very calming and reassuring when I was first diagnosed and sent to see him.

    He commented today on how relaxed I was. Maybe because on our first meeting I was a complete basket case...I had CANCER I had just gotten the all clear for another health issue and then I scared myself silly by Googleing way to much.

    My lymph nodes on neck, under arms&groin were checked today...all ok.and the Drs don't see any reason for more scans or test at this point. Just 6mthly checkups until I get to the 5yr mark. Then it will be up to me if I want to come back or monitor my own checks. So I'm a happy chappy today.:-) Time to celebrate...hmm ..anyone care for glass of wine.! ;-)

  • Ontario48
    Ontario48 Member Posts: 66 Member
    natmcg said:

    6mth check all ok.

    Hi everyone I finally went for my 6mth check. ( it's actually been 8mths since my final surgery) As I expected the Dr is really happy with my scar and surrounding area I do have a bit of an indent but that's due to the fat tissue being removed and in time it will probably even out. He has actually got a new Dr.joining his practice and it was great to meet him and talk to him today.This new Dr has been researching and updating information on DFSP as well as dealing with DFSP at a hospital in England. He will be publishing his findings later this yr. Dr Saleem Loghdey.he is a specialist dermatologist and Mohs surgon . I asked them why is it that some people with DFSP are treated by dermatologists and others are referred to sarcoma specialist. They both agreed that if they were your run of the mill dermos they would not attempt dealing with DFSP(although some do) but as my dermo has studied Mohs, oncology, and pathology(in the USA) he would see no reason for me to go else where and now with his new partner I feel I'm going to the best informed Drs. As well I have been comfortable from the very start with my Dr he was very calming and reassuring when I was first diagnosed and sent to see him.

    He commented today on how relaxed I was. Maybe because on our first meeting I was a complete basket case...I had CANCER I had just gotten the all clear for another health issue and then I scared myself silly by Googleing way to much.

    My lymph nodes on neck, under arms&groin were checked today...all ok.and the Drs don't see any reason for more scans or test at this point. Just 6mthly checkups until I get to the 5yr mark. Then it will be up to me if I want to come back or monitor my own checks. So I'm a happy chappy today.:-) Time to celebrate...hmm ..anyone care for glass of wine.! ;-)

    Great News Nat!!

    Hey Nat, happy to read your good news.  This is excellent!!  Cheers to you and I don't mind to sip a bit of wine to celebrate (it's my dinner time too LOL).  Great the docs are versed and experienced.  You have a good team.  You know we are always here to support you as our little group grows.  You've been a great support to me.

    Cheers, Jo XO

     

  • Ontario48
    Ontario48 Member Posts: 66 Member
    Lone111 said:

    Great news Nat. First checkup

    Great news Nat. First checkup completed to satisfaction and it sound like you now have 2 great doctors to follow your checkups. Yes I'll have a glass of wine to celebrate:-)

    /lone

    Cheers...

    Cheers Lone!  So when are we heading to Denmark?

     

    ; )  Jo

  • Lone111
    Lone111 Member Posts: 32
    Ontario48 said:

    Cheers...

    Cheers Lone!  So when are we heading to Denmark?

     

    ; )  Jo

    Sun is shining -  temperature

    Sun is shining -  temperature just above 0 celsius, soon daffodils will be blooming - Are you picking up Nat on the way?

    I'm back at work and my DFSP seems so far away - it is amazing how fast things changes - not even a month ago I was planning my funaral and now I'm planning summerholiday - latter being much more fun.

    Everybody keeps asking if I'm really doing ok - mentally - I think I am. Did any of you have any late reactions? I think I have such a strong and overwhelming first reaction I hope I'm done with it...

    Jo and Nat you are doing amazing things in here :-) and probably elsewhere too I just can't see that :-)

    /lone

  • natmcg
    natmcg Member Posts: 134 Member
    Lone111 said:

    Sun is shining -  temperature

    Sun is shining -  temperature just above 0 celsius, soon daffodils will be blooming - Are you picking up Nat on the way?

    I'm back at work and my DFSP seems so far away - it is amazing how fast things changes - not even a month ago I was planning my funaral and now I'm planning summerholiday - latter being much more fun.

    Everybody keeps asking if I'm really doing ok - mentally - I think I am. Did any of you have any late reactions? I think I have such a strong and overwhelming first reaction I hope I'm done with it...

    Jo and Nat you are doing amazing things in here :-) and probably elsewhere too I just can't see that :-)

    /lone

    other side of the sun.

    Hi lone

    Your warming up(so is Jo) and my days are getting shorter and cooler,and its been raining. But thats ok because Im on the coast and it doesn't snow here. Great to hear you life is getting back to normal. It certainly is a strange cancer we all had. "Here today gone tomorrow" and our recovery is quite different from other cancers.....no chemo sickness .....no radiation side effects....just scars. Yes there are some people with this that do need way more surgery than we did and some have to live with disfiguring scars and some need to take medications or have radiation to stop or slow down the DFSP spreading. But we have been very lucky ,we still have that bit of uncertainty wether it will come back, but compared to others we have been blessed.

    . I still remember how scared I was six mths ago yet I feel so at ease now, I think mostly because I have all the facts about DFSP. And Im confident that I fall into that very unlikely to reoccurre % that Jo has written about. This discussion board is wonderful. Here we are from all around the world yet we have a very major thing in our lives in common, and we can share information, expriences and support each other. When I read new posts it's like Im going through it myself again and I just want to hug that person(or their carer) and say it's going to be ok. I suppose in time we may not visit here as often, but I'd like to think that we will check in to see what's going on. If I hadn't had any responses when I logded on I probably wouldn't be still posting today. Those people truely understood how alone I felt and that helped a lot in those early days.

    One in a million thats us. ;-)
    Nat.

    PS, There are two other new posts on the other thread. Saywhaat. And mykidisthebest is their CSN names I think. Bit tricky to find page 5&6 I think. Bye.

  • Ontario48
    Ontario48 Member Posts: 66 Member
    Lone111 said:

    Sun is shining -  temperature

    Sun is shining -  temperature just above 0 celsius, soon daffodils will be blooming - Are you picking up Nat on the way?

    I'm back at work and my DFSP seems so far away - it is amazing how fast things changes - not even a month ago I was planning my funaral and now I'm planning summerholiday - latter being much more fun.

    Everybody keeps asking if I'm really doing ok - mentally - I think I am. Did any of you have any late reactions? I think I have such a strong and overwhelming first reaction I hope I'm done with it...

    Jo and Nat you are doing amazing things in here :-) and probably elsewhere too I just can't see that :-)

    /lone

    A few bumps but all in all...GOOD!

    Hey Lone,

    I am one of those take charge and run kind of types.  With this I did that.  Had a few bad days but really no tears for me.  So once I got the all clear it was a flood gate.  Took the day off work and cried a river with my best buddy.  Thinking that was the end of it.  Then about a month later I had a "delayed" reaction.  I had about two weeks of anxiety.  Wouldn't go out.  Didn't answer the phone.  Couldn't keep my business meetings.  I couldn't breath, felt like throwing up all the time and had heart palpatations and brutal headaches.  Thought OMG, I'm losing it.  The phone rang and I'd sweat and get the shakes.  Luckily for me we had lots of snow days (I travel a distance to work so had to work from home those days) so I got throught it without anyone knowing what was going on (pride). 

    It's crazy stuff.  Nothing I could have predicted.  I still have moments but all in all I think I am past the worst of it.  TTL (Thank the Lord).  Hoping my holiday away in Cuba, lying on the beach doing nothing with my best buddy will bring me back to my normal. That and also having the follow up with my STS doc.  The key is to not let lingering things bother you.  Clear up all the unknowns and move forward.  I see my next appointment as a milestone.  For me information is key...I don't like lose ends in anything I do.

    So Lone, no matter what comes your way, ride the wave and work through it.  That's the only advise I have.  I suspect it's different for everyone.  Hold on to the positive things and the things that make you happy.

    GOLF is just around the corner for me.  Can't wait to get back at that!!  I love the spring and summer.  Best time of the year.

    Cheers for now...Jo

  • natmcg
    natmcg Member Posts: 134 Member
    Ontario48 said:

    A few bumps but all in all...GOOD!

    Hey Lone,

    I am one of those take charge and run kind of types.  With this I did that.  Had a few bad days but really no tears for me.  So once I got the all clear it was a flood gate.  Took the day off work and cried a river with my best buddy.  Thinking that was the end of it.  Then about a month later I had a "delayed" reaction.  I had about two weeks of anxiety.  Wouldn't go out.  Didn't answer the phone.  Couldn't keep my business meetings.  I couldn't breath, felt like throwing up all the time and had heart palpatations and brutal headaches.  Thought OMG, I'm losing it.  The phone rang and I'd sweat and get the shakes.  Luckily for me we had lots of snow days (I travel a distance to work so had to work from home those days) so I got throught it without anyone knowing what was going on (pride). 

    It's crazy stuff.  Nothing I could have predicted.  I still have moments but all in all I think I am past the worst of it.  TTL (Thank the Lord).  Hoping my holiday away in Cuba, lying on the beach doing nothing with my best buddy will bring me back to my normal. That and also having the follow up with my STS doc.  The key is to not let lingering things bother you.  Clear up all the unknowns and move forward.  I see my next appointment as a milestone.  For me information is key...I don't like lose ends in anything I do.

    So Lone, no matter what comes your way, ride the wave and work through it.  That's the only advise I have.  I suspect it's different for everyone.  Hold on to the positive things and the things that make you happy.

    GOLF is just around the corner for me.  Can't wait to get back at that!!  I love the spring and summer.  Best time of the year.

    Cheers for now...Jo

    INTRUDER ALERT!!
    SOME PEOPLE REALLY ANNOY ME.
    Why would anyone think we want to read their dam adds
    Iv flagged it. So if you can't see the add then csn has alredy removed it
  • Lone111
    Lone111 Member Posts: 32
    natmcg said:

    INTRUDER ALERT!!
    SOME PEOPLE REALLY ANNOY ME.
    Why would anyone think we want to read their dam adds
    Iv flagged it. So if you can't see the add then csn has alredy removed it

    thanks for sharing again -

    thanks for sharing again - saved by the snow. I am glad to hear your are over it again and i guess there is no way of knowing if something like that will hit before it does.

    Nat: thanks for the alert.

    Helen: i hope you can find time to give us an update oneof these days -  i have been thinking of you and your husband and I hope you get some good news today or at least some answers that will help you.

     

    My father was admitted to the hospital friday and died today. He was old 79 and demented and had been waiting for dead for some years now so it wasn't/isn't really sad. He retired 20 years ago and on that day he sat down in a chair in front of the television and haven't moved for 20 years. He never ate fish, never ate a vegetable or anything else healthy for that matter. I use to think of him and think that since i have half of his genes i can't possible ever get any illness like cancer or anything since he can live like that and not get sick..Well he got sick with diabedes and dementia these last couple of years And I got cancer. Sorry I always think a lot about things, trying to make sense of them. 

    have a nice day everyone

    lone

  • natmcg
    natmcg Member Posts: 134 Member
    Lone111 said:

    thanks for sharing again -

    thanks for sharing again - saved by the snow. I am glad to hear your are over it again and i guess there is no way of knowing if something like that will hit before it does.

    Nat: thanks for the alert.

    Helen: i hope you can find time to give us an update oneof these days -  i have been thinking of you and your husband and I hope you get some good news today or at least some answers that will help you.

     

    My father was admitted to the hospital friday and died today. He was old 79 and demented and had been waiting for dead for some years now so it wasn't/isn't really sad. He retired 20 years ago and on that day he sat down in a chair in front of the television and haven't moved for 20 years. He never ate fish, never ate a vegetable or anything else healthy for that matter. I use to think of him and think that since i have half of his genes i can't possible ever get any illness like cancer or anything since he can live like that and not get sick..Well he got sick with diabedes and dementia these last couple of years And I got cancer. Sorry I always think a lot about things, trying to make sense of them. 

    have a nice day everyone

    lone

    So sorry
    lone, Im sorry to hear of your dad's passing.:-(

    My dad died when I was 29 he was only 65 and had been sick wth multiple myeloma( cancer) for 2yrs. So we we're preparied ( kind of). But it is always a great loss, and you will have good and bad days until the grieving process has taken its course.

    My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Dealing with death in ways is similar to dealings with illnesses( cancer) we all have different time frames of emotions in these situations but eventually we get over it and.on with our lives. And you don't need to apologize about sharing your feelings....we have supported each other through DFSP and I feel are now friends, you have shown concern for my different health & family issues(my brother for one) and I understand if you want or need to share with us here. Please don't forget to take care of yourself, you are still recovering /healing
    from your DFSP ordeal.

    Thinking of you at this difficult and sad.time
    Natalie.
  • Lone111
    Lone111 Member Posts: 32
    natmcg said:

    So sorry
    lone, Im sorry to hear of your dad's passing.:-(

    My dad died when I was 29 he was only 65 and had been sick wth multiple myeloma( cancer) for 2yrs. So we we're preparied ( kind of). But it is always a great loss, and you will have good and bad days until the grieving process has taken its course.

    My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Dealing with death in ways is similar to dealings with illnesses( cancer) we all have different time frames of emotions in these situations but eventually we get over it and.on with our lives. And you don't need to apologize about sharing your feelings....we have supported each other through DFSP and I feel are now friends, you have shown concern for my different health & family issues(my brother for one) and I understand if you want or need to share with us here. Please don't forget to take care of yourself, you are still recovering /healing
    from your DFSP ordeal.

    Thinking of you at this difficult and sad.time
    Natalie.

    Hi Nat - thanks for your

    Hi Nat - thanks for your words and thoughts. And I am sorry to hear that you lost your dad when you were that young. My father had dementia very bad and did not who i was for many years so he has been gone a long time.

    I feel so bad today. I found a lump behind my ear. And I am so afraid again. I can't eat I can't anything and I am such a mess. And I am afrad to tell my husband why I am such a mess again. I can't keep doing this. I have an app with a GP on monday. It is probably just a.... What's behind the ear? I don't know :-(

    /Lone

     

  • Lone111
    Lone111 Member Posts: 32
    Lone111 said:

    Hi Nat - thanks for your

    Hi Nat - thanks for your words and thoughts. And I am sorry to hear that you lost your dad when you were that young. My father had dementia very bad and did not who i was for many years so he has been gone a long time.

    I feel so bad today. I found a lump behind my ear. And I am so afraid again. I can't eat I can't anything and I am such a mess. And I am afrad to tell my husband why I am such a mess again. I can't keep doing this. I have an app with a GP on monday. It is probably just a.... What's behind the ear? I don't know :-(

    /Lone

     

    Lymph nodes. I goggled lymph

    Lymph nodes. I goggled lymph node and there are actually two located behind the ears and I have been having a soar throad these past couple of days. So sorry - I guess I am not that over it as I think I am. Earlier to day I was telling a colleage how DFSP allready seemed so far away for me - i was totally over it - i thought.

    I am still a bit worried and I feel a bit silly - and I think I'll keep my doctors appointment on monday

    I hope you and yours are all well

    br lone

  • natmcg
    natmcg Member Posts: 134 Member
    Lone111 said:

    Lymph nodes. I goggled lymph

    Lymph nodes. I goggled lymph node and there are actually two located behind the ears and I have been having a soar throad these past couple of days. So sorry - I guess I am not that over it as I think I am. Earlier to day I was telling a colleage how DFSP allready seemed so far away for me - i was totally over it - i thought.

    I am still a bit worried and I feel a bit silly - and I think I'll keep my doctors appointment on monday

    I hope you and yours are all well

    br lone

    Totaly normal
    Hello again,

    Your behaving totally normally for someone who has just had a cancerous growth removed. And early detection is always best. Keeping the app is a good idea after what we have been through we can never be to.carefull. but as my Dr said to me when I paniced and thought a simple mole under my ear lobe was.DFSP. CONTROLLED paranoia is ok, and you were reasonablely controled.
    Also at my checkup.he checked the lymph nodes in my groin,under my arms and on my neck.

    Lymph nodes can become swollen and sore for many reasons, but if they turn hard or don't return to normal size then it's always a good move to see a.Dr.

    Have a nice weekend.
    Nat.
  • Ontario48
    Ontario48 Member Posts: 66 Member
    Lone111 said:

    Lymph nodes. I goggled lymph

    Lymph nodes. I goggled lymph node and there are actually two located behind the ears and I have been having a soar throad these past couple of days. So sorry - I guess I am not that over it as I think I am. Earlier to day I was telling a colleage how DFSP allready seemed so far away for me - i was totally over it - i thought.

    I am still a bit worried and I feel a bit silly - and I think I'll keep my doctors appointment on monday

    I hope you and yours are all well

    br lone

    Sorry to Hear...

    Hello Lone, first I'd like to say sorry about your dads passing. Lots to deal with all at once.  Sounds like it is a blessing for him, he will be at peace now.

    And Nat is right, we will be super sensitive to anything new on our bodies that we find.  And we should be.  Anything "abnormal" should be looked at.  I have read that spread to lymph nodes is extremely rare.  Since you have had a sore throat I would expect it's from that as that is very normal with an infection.  Generally if there is a spread to lymph nodes I would think it to be near the site as well.  Do keep your appointment and have it looked at.  Unfortunately with this cancer we will have the concern of regrowth hanging over our heads for a while.  It fades into our day to day and we can only monitor ourselves.  This type of cancer needs to be monitored for the rest of our lives.

    So try not to worry too much but don't feel bad for worrying.  It's your right, you had cancer.

    Chin up lady!!  Jo

  • caroleinnkeeper
    caroleinnkeeper Member Posts: 8
    Newly diagnosed

    I have an innoculation site (childhood shots) from the 50's on my upper thigh that always was odd and large. I had a sliced off biopsy done in 2011 but it didn't show anything. Then this past year the site got weirder, a circle formed and then it got raised and red. My dermatologist took it (8 stitches worth) and biopsy confirmed this is what it is. She got clear margins on the bottom, but the sides need more. I go on 4/22 to get that done at a hospital with a pathologist on hand to tell them when as is clear. I have read a lot and hopeful what they say is correct, and nothing going into other places. I do understnd the reoccurance rate is high, but just in the same place so need to be vigiliant. Should be interesting. People seemed amazed when I tell them that 1 in 1 million are diganosed with this!

  • Ontario48
    Ontario48 Member Posts: 66 Member

    Newly diagnosed

    I have an innoculation site (childhood shots) from the 50's on my upper thigh that always was odd and large. I had a sliced off biopsy done in 2011 but it didn't show anything. Then this past year the site got weirder, a circle formed and then it got raised and red. My dermatologist took it (8 stitches worth) and biopsy confirmed this is what it is. She got clear margins on the bottom, but the sides need more. I go on 4/22 to get that done at a hospital with a pathologist on hand to tell them when as is clear. I have read a lot and hopeful what they say is correct, and nothing going into other places. I do understnd the reoccurance rate is high, but just in the same place so need to be vigiliant. Should be interesting. People seemed amazed when I tell them that 1 in 1 million are diganosed with this!

    Yes, One in A Million Club!

    Hi CIK,

    Can you believe it.  We were all shocked as you find yourself now.  Sounds like you will have Moh's Surgery.  Key is removal, if you can push for chest screen do so.  Read up on STS, soft tissue sarcoma.  This cancer is in that family, more info there.  Not sure what you have read but all indications are if you have a sarcoma, see a sarcoma specialist.  Tends to go with a dermatologist due to it being in the skin. But this is a tricky cancer.  High survival rate all in all but growth patterns are tricky and pathology is tricky.  It so rare studies are all over the place, not much $$ dedicated for research.

    STS represent 1% of all adult cancers, DFSP is rare within that group.  Very rare to spread to lymph nodes or distant (lungs).  Recurrence will depend on surgical removal, margins to clearance.  Get a good surgeon who has experience with this.

    Lots of great support on here...I am sure you will hear them chime in soon.

    Joanne

  • natmcg
    natmcg Member Posts: 134 Member
    Ontario48 said:

    Yes, One in A Million Club!

    Hi CIK,

    Can you believe it.  We were all shocked as you find yourself now.  Sounds like you will have Moh's Surgery.  Key is removal, if you can push for chest screen do so.  Read up on STS, soft tissue sarcoma.  This cancer is in that family, more info there.  Not sure what you have read but all indications are if you have a sarcoma, see a sarcoma specialist.  Tends to go with a dermatologist due to it being in the skin. But this is a tricky cancer.  High survival rate all in all but growth patterns are tricky and pathology is tricky.  It so rare studies are all over the place, not much $$ dedicated for research.

    STS represent 1% of all adult cancers, DFSP is rare within that group.  Very rare to spread to lymph nodes or distant (lungs).  Recurrence will depend on surgical removal, margins to clearance.  Get a good surgeon who has experience with this.

    Lots of great support on here...I am sure you will hear them chime in soon.

    Joanne

    caroleinnkeeper
    Ooops did again lol I get a.bit impatient and push the submit twice.
    Chiming out now.
    Nat.
  • natmcg
    natmcg Member Posts: 134 Member
    Ontario48 said:

    Yes, One in A Million Club!

    Hi CIK,

    Can you believe it.  We were all shocked as you find yourself now.  Sounds like you will have Moh's Surgery.  Key is removal, if you can push for chest screen do so.  Read up on STS, soft tissue sarcoma.  This cancer is in that family, more info there.  Not sure what you have read but all indications are if you have a sarcoma, see a sarcoma specialist.  Tends to go with a dermatologist due to it being in the skin. But this is a tricky cancer.  High survival rate all in all but growth patterns are tricky and pathology is tricky.  It so rare studies are all over the place, not much $$ dedicated for research.

    STS represent 1% of all adult cancers, DFSP is rare within that group.  Very rare to spread to lymph nodes or distant (lungs).  Recurrence will depend on surgical removal, margins to clearance.  Get a good surgeon who has experience with this.

    Lots of great support on here...I am sure you will hear them chime in soon.

    Joanne

    caroleinnkeeper

    Hi and welcome to the club you never wanted to join but now your here welcome to our little discussion group. J

    oanne has already stated the most important points. Having Drs and pathologists that deal with sarcomas is the key to getting those clear margins we all are so use to talking about. Clear margins are our best chance of nil reoccurring but still not a 100% guarantee. You didn't mention where you live. Some of us with DFSP have had to travel out of our home towns to see the most experienced Drs.
    . I am fortunate that my dermo is a Mohs surgon,sarcoma specialist and a pathologist who had delt wth DFSP many times before my case and now he has a DFSP research Dr workingwith him who is recompiling DFSP info and will publish up-to-date finding later this year. I had my 6mth checkup recently and read all the certificates on the waiting room wall(even though I had.check it all out on my drs web page) because it is so important to be confident with the people dealing.with your health. Joanne also mentioned the chest xray. My Drs don't feel I need one because I fall.into the very unlikely.to reoccur percentage.of the.overall.DFSP group BUT I will probably get one.through my GP just for my own peace of mind. :-)
    Good luck and hope you stay say in touch

    Natalie