Mark sent me flowers

KLScoville
KLScoville Member Posts: 161 Member
in Caregivers #1
The flowers are a combination of daisy's, carnations, roses. It is a huge bouquet and the card reads:

PLEASE DO NOT FIND THIS UNUSUAL. THESE FLOWERS ARE NOT FROM DICKIE OR MARTY. THESE ARE FROM MARK, TO STILL BRIGHTEN YOUR DAY...

Mark has some real good friends and I am glad to know them. I may of been strong throughout his illness and demise, I am a total train wreck now. I can't stop crying and my eyes are all puffy. I am just so so sad. I know in time this too will pass. But I think this one is going to be a very long time!

Thank you for all the well wishes.
~Kelly

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  • jimwins
    jimwins Member Posts: 2,107
    #2
    Big warm hugs
    Big warm hugs. I know it hurts and you have every right to be a "train wreck".
    I wanted you to have the link I pasted below as I think it could be useful
    at some point. I posted it on the Grief and Bereavement board awhile back.

    Of course you know you got us here too.

    Grief and Bereavment

    I think the flowers are beautiful.

    All my best,

    Jim
  • palmyrafan
    palmyrafan Member Posts: 396
    #3
    Kelly
    Please know that you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers and I pray for Peace and God's Blessings.

    Teresa
  • leprechaun2
    leprechaun2 Member Posts: 79
    #4
    What a wonderful man! May
    What a wonderful man! May God bless you as you go through this difficult time.
  • Noellesmom
    Noellesmom Member Posts: 1,859 Member
    #5
    Kelly, I know you are overwhelmed by everything that has gone on and is still going on. Wish I could give you a big hug and remind you that you are not alone - we are all here for you.

    Don't worry about how much you cry, not yet. You still have grieving to do and it's best to get started on it now.

    You are in my thoughts and prayers, Kelly.

    Hugs.
  • karenbeth
    karenbeth Member Posts: 194
    #6
    thinking of you
    Kelly,

    I haven't been on this site for a while and just saw all your posts about Mark's last days. I know that even when death is expected the grief and shock are still overwhelming. Let yourself be a train wreck right now, and let your family and friends hold you up. There is nothing I can say to make you feel better, just know I'm thinking of you.

    Karen
  • angelsbaby
    angelsbaby Member Posts: 1,165 Member
    #7
    karenbeth said:

    thinking of you
    Kelly,

    I haven't been on this site for a while and just saw all your posts about Mark's last days. I know that even when death is expected the grief and shock are still overwhelming. Let yourself be a train wreck right now, and let your family and friends hold you up. There is nothing I can say to make you feel better, just know I'm thinking of you.

    Karen

    Kelly
    Its been 2 and half years and i miss him so much i still cry for him so for me it is a long time and thats ok

    take care thinking of u


    michelle

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