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skuttlebug
skuttlebug Member Posts: 45
I made an agreament with my exhusband to drop all back child support which was many thousnds of dollars for his help this last time around with chemo I think i made a deal with the devil. I didnt know him well when i married him i found out when it was to late i forgot how mean and evil he is he was fired from his job of 13 years and was 2or3 months behind on his rent so he asked if he could stay with me for 2or 3 months had him removed from my home allmost a year later the same thing as when we divorced trying to rip apart what i do have left. I made a choice to keep working and take care of our dughter untill I couldnt do it anymome i am now in stage4 of follicur lymphoma it was in 50 percent of my bone marrow untill more chemo hes so angry because i made him leave but right now i am really still down from the chemo i thoughht it was longer than a year ago untill i went to the hospital. now that he works at a job where his wages can be garnisheaned he wants our daghter so he wont have to pay child support really need your prayers to make me stronger to get through this again and this is on top of all my other promlems. He wont take care of our daughter i have listened to him talk about drunken vacations to Mexico empty beer bottles all over home over flowing ash trays filthy home no food in the ridgerator but 2 bottles of liquer pray he doesnt get our daghter. denise

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  • Noellesmom
    Noellesmom Member Posts: 1,859 Member
    praying, Denise
    Praying for you, your daughter and for your husband.

    Hugs.
  • AngKad42
    AngKad42 Member Posts: 26
    Adding you to my prayers
    Will most certainly add you to my prayers hun! Will pray for you and your daughter, for your health and that you get to keep your daughter. I am not a religious person but I love God and I pray everyday for my husband and others here on the boards and others not here. I have found a new strength in God so maybe I am more religious than I thought I was. Some days I rail against God and the cancer that has invaded my family's life and other days I drop to my knees and praise Him for the support and love and help is giving us. I have many blessings and I hate to see anyone suffer, cancer is something I would not wish on my worst enemy and my husband is battling it now. We almost lost him in Dec. and I know it was the power of prayer that pulled him back I pray that God will bless you in your time of need and know that we are with you in your battle.
    Angie
  • grandmafay
    grandmafay Member Posts: 1,633 Member
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    Hugs and prayers. You have a lot on your plate. You may need to see a lawyer now to insure a good future for your daughter. Check with a legal assistance group in your area. They often have free or low cost legal services available. Do whatever you need to do to care for your daughter and yourself. Fay
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  • skuttlebug
    skuttlebug Member Posts: 45

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    thank you
    thank you for the prayers and emotional support i am so worried about my daughter. skuttlebug was her nickname thats where my user name come from now she is just bug i only want her to be taken care of. nhlstage four in remmision a year last month blessings denise