Yesterday, Sept 13, we met with Dr. Jaffe to get the confirmation about Tom's Stage IV Renal cancer which has now spread to his lungs. I learned about the diagnosis on the Stanford portal following his lung biopsy. I forwarded the link to Jana so that she could confirm (or deny) what I thought I was reading. The next morning, Friday, I told Scott and didn't tell Tom until that evening. His comment "I just can't get a break" and that was it.