So here is your dose of Saturday morning philosophy. I was really puzzled by your Facebook post of a while back, where you shared a colorful little poster that says "...when I say I'm okay I want someone to hug me and say "I know you're not..."" "
I have this thing, I call it my "game face." When life really, really sucks, sometimes you can't do anything more than just haul your sorry ass out of bed, put your game face on, and get out there and take it in the teeth. Hit it with your best shot.
And, when I'm hitting it with all I've got, the last damned thing I want is for someone to stick their face in mine and say "wow, you really aren't okay..." or even "gee, you look really sick..."